Foreplay is that *Thing* you’re meant to do before you get down to business.
Why am I telling you this?
I don’t know. Maybe it has something to do with the fact that a recent survey found that 70% of Indians have little or no idea about what foreplay is or rather, what it has the potential to be.
For the uninitiated, foreplay consists of all the actions involved in the seduction of a partner;
- And yeah the list goes on.
In short, it’s the lead up to, and the big fat line between ordinary and mind-blowing sex.
Foreplay is not only fun, it’s also essential for the creation of a mood. Unlike men, who are visual creatures and can get turned on by the mere sight of a woman’s naked body, women respond to sounds, touch and most importantly, to suggestion. Hence, foreplay is more about teasing suggestion than overt sexual gestures. A woman who is not aroused will find sex a painful and unpleasant experience and so it’s important for your man to take his time during foreplay to get you ready for what’s to follow. Similarly, if you want to come away feeling smugly like you was the best he’s ever had; you need to spend more time on perfecting the art of foreplay.
Few great foreplay moves
(Guaranteed to lead to the best sex of your life!)
- Prolong the ‘making out’. Kiss, cuddle, or even play around. Giggle, laugh and tussle in bed, on the sofa or wherever you are. Don’t get all serious and hot and heavy too fast. When you can look into each others eyes, with your hair all tousled, and your cheeks flushed from giggling, sex is a hundred times more beautiful.
- Massage each other. Remember it’s about the relaxation and the unwinding of the muscles. Let your partner feel the stress of his/her day melt away under the skill of your fingers. Only when you feel that they are in that nice intoxicated state of comfort, do you snap them out of it with something more ahem…unexpected!
- Zero in on all your partners erogenous zones. To put it simply, pamper those places on your lover’s body that gives them most pleasure. Tease, touch, kiss, nuzzle or lick, but keep them wanting more. Don’t make any sexual overtures yet. Suggestion is the sexiest part of sex! For instance, if you’re kissing your lover’s feet, move onto the inside of the ankle and calf. Nuzzling, softly biting, licking and kissing the ears, nape of the neck, behind the knees and the belly works wonders because of the ultra sensitive nature of these parts.
- The chest/breasts can be fondled and kissed to great advantage! You can even be inventive and use props like feathers or silk scarves to blindfold or tantalize your partner.
- A last but not least word of advice; Before you embark on this wonderful journey, set the mood by turning down the lights, lighting some candles and playing soft music. Wear clothes that caress and cling and wow your lover like he’s never seen before!
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